Books on Mixed Orientation Marriages & Relationships

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REC*OG*NIZE: The Voices of Bisexual Men – An Anthology (2014) by Robyn Ochs & H. Sharif Williams

Is My Husband Bi, Gay, or Straight: A Guide for Women Concerned About Their Men (2014) by Joe Kort

Loving Someone Gay (5th edition, 2009) by Don Clark

Getting Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World (2009)by Robyn Ochs & Sarah E. Rowley (editors)

When Your Spouse Comes Out: A Straight Mate’s Recovery Manual (2008) by Carol Grever

Bi America: Myths, Truths, and Struggles of an Invisible Community (2005) by William E. Burleson

Bisexual and Gay Husbands: Their Stories, Their Words (Haworth Gay & Lesbian Studies) (2001) by Fred Klein & Thomas R Schwartz

My Husband Is Gay: A Woman’s Guide to Surviving the Crisis (2001) by Carol Grever

Dual Attraction: Understanding Bisexuality (1994) by Martin S. Weinberg, Colin J. Williams & Douglas W. Pryor

The Other Side of the Closet: The Coming-Out Crisis for Straight Spouses and Families (1994) by Amity Buxton

The Bisexual Option (1993 2nd Ed.) by Fritz Klein

Uncommon Lives (1990) by Catherine Whitney

Good-bye, I Love You (1986) by Carol Lynn Pearson

Loving a Woman, Choosing a Man (2014) by Bette Braud

Living Two Lives: Married to a Man and in Love with a Woman (2012) by Joanne Fleisher

Married Women who Love Women (2008) by Carren Strock

The Bisexual’s Guide to the Universe: Quips, Tips, and Lists for Those Who Go Both Ways Paperback (2006) by Nicole Kristal & Mike Szymanski

Books on opening up a relationship or marriage

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (2014) by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert

Eight Things I Wish I’d Known About Polyamory: Before I Tried It and Frakked It Up (2014) by Cunning Minx

The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships (2013) by Kathy Labriola

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures (2009) by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships (2008) by Tristan Taormino

Polyamory in the Twenty-First Century: Love and Intimacy with Multiple Partners (2012) by Deborah Anapol

Books on other related topics

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts (2015) by Gary D. Chapman

The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity (2013) by Tammy Nelson

Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex–and How to Get It (2012) by Marty Klein

Facing Heartbreak:  Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts (2012) by Stefanie Carnes, Mari A. Lee & Anthony D. Rodriguez

Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts (2011) by Stefanie Carnes

A House Interrupted: A Wife’s Story of Recovering from Her Husband’s Sex Addiction (2011) by Maurita Corcoran

Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed (2008) by Debra Laaser

Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin— – How to Recognize and Set Healthy Boundaries (1994) by Anne Katherine

The Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction: A Comprehensive Counseling Resource (2008) by Janelle M. Hallman

The Ultimate Guide to Sex After Fifty: How to Maintain or Regain a Spicy, Satisfying Sex Life (2015) by Joan Price

Rewriting the Rules: An Integrative Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships (2013) by Meg Barker

Getting Past Your Past: Take Control of Your Life with Self-Help Techniques from EMDR Therapy (2013) by Francine Shapiro

Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex (2011) by Joan Price

Radical Honesty: How to Transform Your Life by Telling the Truth (2005) by Brad Blanton

The Book of Forgiving: The Fourfold Path for Healing Ourselves and Our World (2015) by Desmond Tutu & Mpho Tutu